https://randomshelly.com/ Shelly Gibbens writes about how programmers think, how different brains collide, and what happens when nobody can see inside anybody else's head. en-us Thu, 30 Jul 2026 01:54:02 +0000 https://randomshelly.com/neurodivergence/both-of-you-make-sense/ https://randomshelly.com/neurodivergence/both-of-you-make-sense/ Wed, 29 Jul 2026 12:00:00 +0000 Neurodivergence Most damage between people is not malice. It is a misread of the mechanism, running unexamined for years.